What do you want to achieve in your life? At one time or another you must have asked yourself what the purpose of your life is – so that you can look back and say that your life had been worthwhile. What in your life is worth getting up for and putting your energy into? What inspires you, what motivates you, what do you dream about?
Whatever your personal goals are, it is important that they are clearly formulated. This will help you to focus on your goals and achieve them:
- Pictorial – You should be able to visulise your goals.
- Precise – The goals refer to a specific thing or action.
- Positive – Your subconscious does not understand the word “No”.
- Credible – Formulate the goals into something you believe you can do.
- Measurable – Use parameters that are concrete and can be accessed such as; who, what, when, how many, how often…
- Motivating – Your goals should burn in your mind-strong desires lead to big results.
- Short and sweet – Make your goals as short and simple as possible so that they are easy to remember.
- Realistic – Make your goals relevant and feasible.
Tips and questions to achieve your goals:
- Divide large goals into smaller steps.
- Hold steadfast to realizing your desires in your thoughts, words and deeds.
- Choose someone who has achieved their goals to be an example or role model.
- Identify yourself with the desired achievement rather than concentrating on the problems of the moment.
- What do you have to do to reach your goal?
- Ask yourself how you are going to implement each step optimally.
- Consider what could go wrong and write down what you would do in each case. “if this happens, then I will…” Memorise the desired responses.
- What effects do you want to achieve through your actions?
- What skills and abilities do you need to develop mentally, to achieve your goal?
Are you ready to set forth on the journey to achieve your goals? As the saying goes: “Actions speak louder than words”. On this exciting journey you will not only learn and use new ideas and techniques, but also discover a new side to yourself. Don’t be afraid of failure and setbacks. That’s part of the process. With each goal you achieve you will be generously rewarded with vital experience and increased self-confidence. Start you journey now, at your own pace, in your own way.
